Thank you @lewishowes for posting this. And thank you @cave313 for being an excellent example of a real man for our boys.
When you yell at young boys as they cry and tell them to "Man Up" or "Stop being a little girl" if affects them in more ways than you know. It makes them embarrassed, then angry, then aggressive, then stoic to a place they never can express themselves. Why? Because you made them wrong for having human emotions. When this happens over and over for years and you wonder when they are adults why they never open up or why they react so quickly when anyone makes them wrong, this may be part of the cause. Love how @cave313 is being a loving, and powerful example of fatherly love to all the boys who may not experience that at his facility! Just because boys become men one day, doesn't mean they don't have human emotions.
Sporting my Golden Girls shirt at @bhmairport and I've noticed something interesting every time I wear it. Men usually know immediately whose names are on my shirt, it takes women a minute to figure it out. Is it possible that the Golden Girls is more of a guys show? Or am I trying to convince myself that?